How to Find Private Money Lenders for Real Estate Deals, And Why Relationships Beat Everything
Finding great real estate deals is one skill. Funding them is another. After thousands of deals in Houston I've learned that the money is rarely the hard part, the relationships are. Private money lenders, the ones who actually make deals happen at favorable terms, don't come from ads or loan brokers. They come from years of doing exactly what you said you'd do, every single time. No slight of hand or misdirection can fool me. I know about the mirrors and trap doors. But in the end, getting reliable people to invest in deals is hard. I've been fortunate and have worked with several VERY good private money lenders.
What Most Investors Get Wrong About Private Money
Most investors approach private lenders like they're applying for a bank loan, leading with the deal and the numbers. That's backwards. Private lenders invest in people first and deals second. They want to know you're the kind of operator who pays on time, communicates clearly, and doesn't disappear when things get complicated.
The way you build that reputation is simple and slow, you do good deals, you treat your lenders well, you pay them more than they expected, and you keep showing up. Eventually the relationship shifts from transactional to something closer to a partnership. That's where the real terms live.They started out like a hard money loan w/ a bit better terms, but turned into great relationships. But, as they all do, eventually they "make enough" to move on to invest in deals that are massive. Thats not my wheelhouse, I like deals under 10m and even though I have done MUCH larger, its just not worth the time and effort...even though the money is great. To me its about balance. Doing what I love. And getting to add value to others lives (the end user/trades/lenders/realtors/etc). I pay more than most, so I don't make as much as I could in more way than one. Its not that I don't like money, I do. I just have found that I am happier working with those who are happy working w/ me. That philosophy hasn't made me the Billions I feel I deserve ;) but I am building a legacy that I can have pride in the fact that my ego nor greed cost me my integrity.
I've built my entire business on that same philosophy, doing right by everyone in the deal, from the trades to the lenders to the end buyer. If you're a Houston investor looking for someone who operates that way and wants the same from the people they work with, let's talk.
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